- 16% of MAUMS students report someone has ever done sexual things to them they did not want;
- 27% of MAUHS students someone has ever done sexual things to them they did not want. (2023 YRBS)
As we recognize Child Abuse Prevention Month and Sexual Assault Awareness Month in April, we affirm that prevention starts with knowledge and communication. Teaching children the correct names for body parts, reinforcing that their bodies belong to them, and practicing how to say “no” or ask for help are simple and powerful tools. Puberty education lays the groundwork for keeping young people safe as they move through adolescence. Adults play a key role in modeling that this information is not taboo, secretive, or something to avoid; rather, an important part of growing up healthy and informed.
These days, conversations about safety, consent, and respect also have to include digital spaces. Nearly half of children in the U.S. have a phone by age 10, and by ages 13-14, 90% of teens have a smartphone. With this increased access comes increased risk to new forms of pressure and risk. New research highlights just how common it is for young people to be asked or pressured to share personal sexual images, often without fully understanding potential impacts. When young people are coerced into sexting, there can be significant mental health impacts.
Caregivers and educators need to know how to support youth in reducing harm. As the Times article emphasizes: “The absolute No. 1 thing you can do is talk to your kids. And it’s not a one-off birds-and-bees conversation. It’s an ongoing conversation about healthy relationships, healthy sexuality and consent.” By having open conversations – early and often – we show young people that they can ask questions, share concerns, and seek help without fear or shame.
Resources to Watch and Share:
- Sextortion: Online Coercion and Blackmail
- What is Sexual Assault?
- Sexual Abuse Can Happen to Anyone
- Dealing With Past Sexual Abuse